Why do bullies behave the way they are?

 Why bullies act the way they do?

If you've ever been bullied, then you most likely know how it feels to feel sad about yourself, and other thoughts that you think may be true. 

Bullies shoot a big hatred towards people, but is there a reason for why they do this? or is it just them? That's why I'm doing this blog post to explain why and what these bullies may be feeling while in the process of bullying people.

1. Why do bullies behave badly? Is this some form of hatred from bullies that made them this way, or is it just them being a nuisance. Well it's not actually like that. Most bullies actually behave the way they do because of things that's happened in their past. They may of been bullied, maybe they're having family problems, maybe them being bullied in the past has taken a lot of anger and turned them into one themselves.

2. What are bullies hiding that shows that they don't care? Bullies can be quite good at acting like they don't care about the actions they are doing. This may sound really odd but most bullies actually do care about they're actions and could care about you as well. Some bullies are just trying to hide the fact that they may have strong feelings for you, or just want to be your friend. They hide that from you by showing you how little they care. But truly they're just scared of rejection. 

3. What is important to keep in mind next time you meet a bully?

You could either ignore everything they say, or realise what could be going on in their life that make them act like this, or they're just hiding the fact that they like you and just want to be your friend. So don't take anything they say to heart. 

Thank you for reading! See you later!